Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Shame Shame,Whose Shame?

#ToiletForBabli –Is this the same Babli from that fun,frothy movie ‘Bunty Aur Babli’? Maybe,maybe not. She is just one of the millions of faceless girls whose lives are at stake simply for want of something that most of us take for granted-> Toilets!

Some time ago,I was surprised when I saw Vidya Balan on TV not promoting a movie but appearing in a social ad exhorting women to say 'No' to marriage if their in-laws did not have toilet in the home! ''How could an issue like building a toilet be so vital that a superstar is being roped in for such cause'', I thought! After all,we all have grown up listening to our grandparents talk about taking the ‘lota’ in the ‘fields’, haven’t we? And then that ghastly scene from ‘Slumdog Millionnaire’ where those boys in Dharavi lived surrounded by heaps of garbage,defecating in open-something we see every morning while commuting.What is the big deal?

And then I started reading newspapers even more intently. More than 597 million people defecating in the open. Girls being raped when they had to venture out of their homes in the dead of the night to answer nature’s call. That is when the point struck home! It is not only a big deal, it is a question of humanity!

Digestion is one of the normal bodily functions. We eat and we drink and we get energy from the same while the waste products have to be excreted. That is why we need and have toilets. Now I am trying to put myself in the shoes of someone who has to live without toilet. Where do I go to answer nature’s calls? In the open. Where does all this waste product go? In our rivers,lakes and seeps to the underground water reservoirs. Who drinks this water? I,my family, my friends. We also eat crops which are grown in the same soil contaminated with all kinds of garbage and bacteria from putrefying human excreta. So who is at biggest risk for diseases like Diarrhoea, Dysentry? Who else but of course me,my family, everyone around me. Add to that the fact that I am Babli, a girl. I have started menstruating and my school doesn't have a toilet. Will I be able to go to school during my monthly cycle? No! Of course, no wonder that so many government and social schemes have also not been able to get 100% girls’ education and that too because of a simple thing-non availability of toilets for girls in schools! I used to read all these like a boring piece of statistics in newspapers but now,I can seriously see the ramifications!

It is especially a dangerous and humane issue in a country like India, where women are among the most vulnerable and preyed upon social groups. Not only is a woman’s ‘dignity’ a big deal and forces her to ‘control herself’ when it comes to defecating when she wants to and ought to; with possible molesters and rapists lurking in every  corner of our poorly lit streets, it is downright dangerous for a woman to venture out at night for a simple task like-answering nature’s calls. Imagine how many innocent lives could be saved if only women had access to toilets in their own homes! No wonder I grew up listening to my mom talking about her mother and grandmother as women who used to drink nothing while travelling so as to spend the entire day without having the urge to urinate anywhere (while of course the menfolk always have it easy!)

Not only is this open defecation a serious national issue, it comes loaded with a host of sanitation, health and criminal problems. I am so thankful to Domex for having taken a wonderful initiative to do something about this. Here is a little something about Domex Toilet Academy-

Domex, HUL’s flagship sanitation brand, currently runs the Domex Toilet Academy (DTA) programme. Domex Toilet Academy was launched on 19th November 2013. It aims to become a sustainable and long-term solution to provide sanitation that benefits the local community and helps stimulate the local economy. The Toilet Academy makes toilets accessible and affordable, while promoting the benefits of clean toilets & good hygiene. Our effort has resulted in bringing the change in the villages of Maharashtra and Orissa and we aim to build 24000 toilets by 2015 in rural areas faced with the problem of open defecation.

Friends,This is an Appeal :) -> You can bring about the change in the lives of millions of kids, thereby showing your support for the Domex Initiative. All you need to do is “click” on the “Contribute Tab” on www.domex.in and Domex will contribute Rs.5 on your behalf to eradicate open defecation, thereby helping kids like Babli live a dignified life.

I am in to do my part in eradicating this National Shame and I hope all my friends are in too!

My Dream Home..Oh Sweet Home!

You know how girls grow up dreaming about their perfect weddings (at least according to the chick flicks this is 100% true)? Well,I grew up dreaming about my perfect home! Maybe it had something to do with having spent an inordinate amount of time with my best friend Manu who was a born Interior Designer, who would enter a birthday party and immediately pick out 10 different ways to arrange the cushions and the flowers in the room (needless to say,we were kicked out of countless birthday parties)!

So anyway, since I have always been bit by this Home decoration bug-and also owing to my dad’s transferable job we never had any permanent roots, I have always been dreaming about having my own home which I would decorate with world’s best artifacts and what not! It has been a life long dream and ever since I heard about the entry of Numero Uno Porcelanosa in Asia with Kolte-Patil Developers Ltd. for their luxury brand #24KLiving - I had to check it out and and the moment I did, my mind was again filled with images of my Dream Home! Trying not to get overwhelmed with all the choices, here I list down some of my most dreamy ones that are definitely making it to my sweet home :)

I have always had a thing for Natural Wood floor tiles as I want my home to exude an earthiness, a down-to earth quality which is naturally elegant and all-encompassing! Having chosen my floor tiles,I want something sturdy for the walls and I am going to use Natural Stone tiles which will provide a solid overall look, something I value and something that doesn’t erode with time!

Now I will move on to one of the most important rooms of my house-The Kitchen! While I don’t claim to be a Masterchef, my kitchen is definitely one of the busiest hubs of activity since I believe in freely experimenting (palatability is not always a concern for me :P) and my kitchen needs the best for this. Fret not, since I have my eye on some wonderful Kitchen furniture like G500 / G575 Blanco Brillo G670 Roble Camel Vintage that comes with ample storage space and G936 Cristal Verde Oliva / G625 Roble Niebla / G575 Moka Brillo will come handy for all the versatile uses I can think of for as many ingredients as possible :D And of course, the Krion worktop is exactly what I have been waiting for since eons! Classy, elegant, stylish and most importantly, so functional! My dream kitchen is right here!

Another very important room-Bathroom-is where I am getting so stuck! I cannot pick out 1 from so many wonderful choices! I want the Next Roble Coco Vintage as well as In Luxury Blanco Mate / Oro Mate as well as Spirit Collection!  Each one of these signifies a ‘less is more’attitude and exudes an aura of unparalleled vintage style that I adore! And the Shower Set is the stuff that dreams actually are made of!And Escalera K is what I need to keep all my shower accessories in place, spic and span. I love how every piece of furniture and accessory is designed keeping in mind ease of use and functionality and not just as pretty props to be flaunted (though the flaunt quotient is simply off the charts too).

Having spent more than an hour looking through (ogling is more of an apt description) it is time for me to glide back to reality-but with this hope that someday I shall own my dream home and posting pictures of the same,all of them from this beautiful Catalogue that I hold so dear. Oh Sweet Home!